Join a Community of Grievers

Forced Joy Club: connect with others who get it

Our Mission

To build and sustain a community that helps grievers feel less alone, provides a safe and judgment-free space to share stories and resources, and creates meaningful connections that helps the world better navigate the complexities of grief.

This is not your traditional grief group.

We don’t have a manual. There is no script. We aren't going to spout out one-liners telling you that everything happens for a reason or you need to search for a silver lining. Swearing will occur.

This is your space to bring the truest, rawest form of yourself, wherever you’re at, in this moment.  

The Forced Joy Club is a community of people looking to find connection in the dark and shadowy moments of life, without guilt or shame. It’s for people who understand that sometimes in grief, joy has to forced.

We believe that while grief looks different for everyone, the more we share about it, the more others know they’re not alone in their experience. Plus, sharing our struggles not only helps with a sense of belonging, but can also drastically improve our healing. 

Grief is personal. Grief is isolating. But that doesn’t mean you need to experience it alone. 

Come sit in the shit – and maybe also the joy – with people who understand.

If you are unable to afford a membership, but feel you could benefit, please email dana@forcedjoyproject.com.

If you would like to contribute to a future griever's membership, please do so here:

This is a safe and welcoming place for all genders, ethnicities, and sexual identities.